tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post4564322721417716413..comments2023-09-21T04:06:12.405-04:00Comments on She Dances On The Sand: Short opinion on the Dan Savage thingRioIririhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04358432680088606342noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post-59147750419948090252007-12-11T20:30:00.000-05:002007-12-11T20:30:00.000-05:00Shannon-tragic though it is, yes, people like that...Shannon-<BR/>tragic though it is, yes, people like that do. My best friend was dumped by her boyfriend of six months because she cut her hair short and dyed it red. He told her that because she KNEW he found long-haired brunettes attractive, she just did it to spite him.<BR/><BR/>I wish I was kidding, but I'm not.aebhelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18006850110550108753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post-26638889100294003282007-12-09T13:09:00.000-05:002007-12-09T13:09:00.000-05:00I never understood that attitude either. Do people...I never understood that attitude either. Do people like that not love their spouses when they get bad haircuts? When they get sick and loose too much weight? What if they change their fashion style? What if (gasp!) they get old and start to go gray and get wrinkles? (well, ok, that last one explains mid-life crises and leaving your spouse to run off with people half your age). <BR/><BR/>Now I happen to think my graying, fat husband is as hot as when I met him but maybe that's because I really love him. HIM. So whatever package he comes in is going to look good to me because I'm wearing rose colored lovey dovey glasses and all ;-)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13606192123176489400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post-75718046414286089432007-12-09T12:37:00.000-05:002007-12-09T12:37:00.000-05:00Totally agree. Kindness and sense of humor were wh...Totally agree. Kindness and sense of humor were what drew me to my DH, and no matter how he changes physically, I'll still love him. If he turns into an abusive asshat, on the other hand, I'm outa here.....lol (unless it happens to be from dementia or old timers' disease, then I'll cope).vesta44https://www.blogger.com/profile/15480692717585745934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post-49286964211593866872007-12-09T10:38:00.000-05:002007-12-09T10:38:00.000-05:00I couldn't agree more. When we got married, hubby...I couldn't agree more. When we got married, hubby's and my vows said "just as you are and however you may change", and we meant it!<BR/><BR/>This was a real pleasure to see.Erishkegalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13821354285351695508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356827408135871543.post-7507007973560416832007-12-09T02:19:00.000-05:002007-12-09T02:19:00.000-05:00That is beautiful. I totally agree with you. Kindn...That is beautiful. I totally agree with you. Kindness, humor, confidence, & humility, are what make a man attrative in my book. Give me those qualities over a buff bod anytime. Buff bods are a dime a dozen, but a truly beautiful soul can sometimes be hard to come by. <BR/>Kat@Big Fat Beautiful KissKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10712786173626176237noreply@blogger.com